Politeness is deception in pretty packaging.
- Veronica Roth, Divergent
A Son says to his Mother: “Mother, today I fought with my friend.”
His mother says: “Why did you fight with your friend?”
“Because he demanded something of me, and I would not give it to him.”
“Why did you not give it to him?”
“Because it was mine.”
“My son, you now have your possessions, but you do not have your friend. Which would you rather have?”
“My friend.”
“Then give freely, trusting that you will also be given what you need.
- Veronica Roth, part of the Amity manifesto
The only reason people cannot bear honesty now is because they were not raised hearing the truth about themselves, and they can’t stand to. If children are raised to hear both honest praise and honest criticism, they will not be so fragile as to crumble beneath the scrutiny of their peers. A life of truth makes us strong.
- Veronica Roth, part of the Candor manifesto
Human beings as a whole cannot be good for long before the bad creeps back in and poisons us again.
- Veronica Roth, Divergent
Noise and activity are the refuges of the bereaved and the guilty.
- Veronica Roth, Insurgent
-Veronica Roth, Divergent
(Source: princerhaegars, via hazelthequeenofdiamonds)